This is an article by Sunny Chanel for Yahoo. I think she's right. Do you?
Yeah, I can't believe it either, but that's just what happened to one Texas mom who allowed the
Today Show's cameras into the delivery room as she gave birth to her daughter Hayley. And then things got awkward.
The very perky corespondent said, "How are you doing Emily? Look at
that camera and tell us!" The new mom, still appearing like she was in a
state of shock (and how can you blame her, she just gave birth) looked
at the camera at her shoulder and meekly said, "hi." Then reporter told
the very new mom that they had a present for her. Was it a scholarship
for her new child? Was it a year's supply of diapers? With perky
reporter's enthusiasm you'd think it was something that stellar. But no,
it was a Today Show onesie which the cheerful corespondent
dutifully held up for the camera. It was not just a present in the "meh"
category, but came off as blatant self-promotion. I think the new mom
should have been the one getting a shirt adorned with something like, "I
gave birth on national TV and all I got was this lousy T-shirt."
The reporter didn't really know what to do with the
Today Show
onesie she bestowed upon the woman - who, let me remind you, had just
pushed a human being out of vagina - and so she placed it on the woman's
thigh while a doctor was still attending to the the new mom's lady
parts. Thankfully the woman's partner quickly removed the onesie from
the new mom's naked thigh, but it was an awkward moment to be sure.
And this wasn't the only birth they showed; they had several woman from
around the nation who participated in having their births filmed, or
allowed the cameras in the recovery room. This is part of the Today
Show's
BornToday series, which is a great idea on paper, but just comes off as odd.
I understand that in these days of constant
live TV,
a network would love to show something as monumental as the birth of a
child, but the whole thing came off as a desperate play for ratings.
Something about how the births were presented was just weird, and that
was just day one. On Tuesday's show, you could watch a child being
conceived live on TV! Obviously they wouldn't (and couldn't) show a
couple engaged in intercourse, so instead they showed an
IVF procedure, which was actually pretty fascinating, and much less awkward than the births.
But my question is this:
what
makes an expectant mother agree to give birth on live TV? Giving birth
is such a personal moment, probably one of the most personal moments in
one's life, and it would be bizarre to share it with millions of
strangers watching from their homes.
Jessica Menkhausen, the woman whose IVF procedure was on Tuesday morning, wrote about her reasons for sharing her story,
saying,
"It's an amazing opportunity to enlighten other women who are having
the same challenges. And it's also a form of self-enlightenment -
sharing my story is helping me deal with some of my own fears, by
courageously facing them head on." These are very valid reasons, but I
still wouldn't do it.
Would you ever agree to share a moment like this with the world?
-By Sunny Chanel
Z: I think this goes along with the way so many people are unconcerned about abortion, have children and don't raise them, have children without both parents, expect everyone else to pay for their murder or their upbringing, go on TV as unwed girls griping about the public not paying for their birth control...........I think we're seeing a trend toward demeaning human beings........Giving birth on TELEVISION?
WOMEN: Would YOU? ALL: Don't you feel there's a limit to what they show? Sure, birth is beautiful, but isn't it private anymore? That picture above is the closest thing to giving birth I want to see on TV!
What are your thoughts?